Collection: Butt Plugs

How to Choose the Right Butt Plug

A butt plug is designed to be inserted and worn — during solo play, partnered sex, or as part of an ongoing training or pleasure practice. Unlike thrusting toys, they stay in place through their tapered shape and flared base, which is non-negotiable for anal safety: never use any anal toy without one. The classic plug shape — narrow tip, widest point mid-way, narrowed neck, flared base — creates a comfortable, secure fit that allows the sphincter to relax around the neck and hold the toy naturally.

First-timers should start small. A slim beginner plug under 3cm at its widest is the right choice — it allows the body to adjust without discomfort. Silicone is the ideal material for beginners: soft, body-safe, non-porous, and easy to clean. Use generous water-based lubricant (never silicone lube with silicone toys), insert slowly, and stop if anything feels sharp or painful — mild pressure is normal, pain is not. For those building toward larger sizes, anal training kits offer a stepped set of plugs in increasing widths for gradual, safe progression.

Beyond size, butt plugs vary widely by material and function. Glass and stainless steel plugs are firm, non-porous, and can be warmed or cooled for temperature play. Jewelled plugs add a decorative element for aesthetic or exhibitionist appeal. Vibrating butt plugs combine the wearing sensation with internal rumble, and are especially popular for solo play or when worn during other activity. Prostate plugs are angled versions targeting the male P-spot. Clean all plugs thoroughly after each use with toy cleaner or antibacterial soap.